44 Self Concept Affirmations for Love
Change your self-talk with these self-concept affirmations to attract the love you deserve and desire.
If you’re a fan of RuPaul Charles, you know the saying: “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” It’s more than just a catchphrase from one of my favorite TV shows—it’s a truth we often overlook.
Our self-concept in love is everything. The relationship we have with ourselves directly shapes how others show up in our lives. The world is our mirror, reflecting what we believe about ourselves every single day. That’s why I started repeating self concept affirmations for love.
If you’re ready to do the same, you’ll find 50 self-concept affirmations for love below!
44 Self-Concept Affirmations for Love
I am chosen.
I am wanted.
Love comes easily to me.
I attract love easily.
I am adored.
I am pursued.
I am more than enough.
The man/woman/person I want wants me.
I always get the guy/girl.
Men/women/people always commit to me.
I never chase love.
I am so lucky in love.
Men/women always reciprocate my feelings.
I am valuable.
I am worthy.
I am unconditionally loved.
I am enough just as I am.
I am the best.
I am the prize.
I am prioritized.
Men/women/people show up consistently in my life.
Love stays.
Love never fades.
Men/women/people commit to me easily.
I am lovable.
I am deserving.
I am irreplaceable.
I am unforgettable.
I am irresistible.
I am the only option.
I trust myself.
I feel safe in love.
I radiate love.
I am love.
I am spoiled.
I am adored.
I am blessed in love.
I don’t chase, I atrract.
I am used to men/women/people committing to me.
I am everyone’s type.
I check all his/her/their boxes.
I am his/her/their dream girl/guy/person.
I am confident in love.
Love always works out for me.
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I can now say that I inherently love myself. I see my worth and value, and feel a deep sense of self-love, simply because I exist.
Are you ready? Are you excited? You should be! Since I started listening to my self-concept affirmations for love, I’ve felt better than ever—and you will too.

